It has been a difficult weekend for the Yoshida family. I can hardly believe it already is Sunday night, almost Monday morning…when most people return back to work, and to what most know as everyday life…
We attended a memorial service for my dear friend Tina and her husband Jason, whose son Ari was delivered stillborn a week ago. The turnout was amazing…a true testament to the love and support they have in their lives…especially when they are going through what must be the most difficult experience ever. Their pastor shared some words and read from the Bible, and there wasn’t a dry eye in the house.
On the same day we attended a going-away party for friends leaving for Shanghai, and also a retirement party for a friend. Both filled with happy moments, and some tears, but happy tears. Much different that the tears we had seen at Tina and Jason’s house.
Though we ourselves had not experienced such a loss, or are leaving for China, or are retiring, when we do celebrate or grieve with those we love, it is as though we are experiencing the event, the loss, the moment, ourselves. We feel what they feel, good or bad. Perhaps that is why it’s been such a tough weekend. From the experience of such joy in achieving a milestone such as retirement…to experiencing devastating loss, of a newborn child....the highs and the lows....the extremes of emotions...hard to go through all in a short period of time...
As I thought about what it would be like to experience something like Tina and Jason’s loss, I find it hard to imagine how in the world anyone could endure this kind of heartbreak without knowing Jesus Christ. Without Jesus, how could anyone make sense of a loss like this? Thinking bigger picture, how could we go through anything in life without Jesus? I can only pray God will comfort their entire family at this time, and that we, as those that love them, can continue to support them in all ways possible…for truly God will see them through this, and his joy and love will shine through, in the end. I do believe that.
-miko